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【 Name 】 The Wisdom of Kindness
【 Author 】 Edited by Pang Bo
【 Publisher 】 China Overseas Chinese Publishing House
【 Open 】 16 open
[Page Count]
[Size and Weight] 0.90
ISBN number: 9787511337733
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Don't be scheming, it's wise but foolish
The heavy sword has no sharp edge, it's a great coincidence that it doesn't work
Kindness is more effective than trickery
Clever scheming is not worth the loss
Confusion is also a form of intelligence
Foolishness is harder than wisdom
Intelligence always has its moments of difficulty
Don't be fooled by intelligence for a lifetime
Honesty and integrity are the survival strategies under disadvantages
Better to be a fool than a fool
Secondly, one must have the ability, not the temper
Truly capable people have no temper
Being angry is not as good as striving, and turning over is not as good as turning over
Don't let your temper ruin you
Life requires' dull sensitivity '
Sensitive nerves cut oneself
Treat others with kindness, neither harming others nor oneself
Don't take small things too seriously, only then can you have the energy to achieve great things
Life can be disappointing, but the soul cannot be out of control
Find an 'exit' for bad emotions
Honesty and approachability are not weaklings or weaklings
Harmony and inclusiveness, 'suffering losses' is a blessing
To avoid losses is to refuse success
Cut a piece of meat and get a cow
Suffering losses in front of others, gaining blessings behind
You don't have to suffer big losses if you will suffer small losses
Lost in profit, won hearts and minds
Take the initiative to suffer losses and make the other party feel ashamed
Self destruction can actually lead to survival
Losing money means releasing capital
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The four virtues of generosity, kindness, and tolerance are what make a dragon elephant
Be pragmatic and not empty, be down-to-earth and not empty handed
Six, do not cross the thunder pool, do not fall into the abyss
Seven sincere efforts, treat others well
To show mercy to others is to leave a way for oneself
Nine benefits have already benefited people, win-win is a long-term win
If you are solely focused on profit, there will be no profit
Eleven benefits are not exclusive and cannot be shirked
Twelve acts of gratitude and gratitude, those who help others are helped by others
Honesty can inspire trust in me
Fourteen affectations are not as true as true colors
Fifteen loyalty is the trump card for survival
Go straight on the Sixteen Paths, only by walking straight can you go far
17. It's better to move people with emotions than to treat them with skills
Kindness means not being too shrewd, not being too harsh, not being too calculating, not being too decisive, not being too selfish, not being too hypocritical, not being too impetuous, not being too ostentatious, not being too greedy, not being too demanding... In short, it means being a real person, eating honest food, doing honest things, not letting your behavior be too rebellious, and not letting your thoughts be too extreme. The traditional Chinese concepts of "virtue carries goods", "virtue carries blessings", and "accumulation leads to success" are good interpretations of kindness.
In fact, the term 'kindness' does not have a fixed meaning, it is a manifestation of spirit and a simple survival wisdom. Kindness is like the slanting sun in winter or the gentle breeze in summer, both in terms of character and virtue, it can move people. Being kind to oneself can make oneself happy, joyful, and proactive; Being kind to others can make people trust, feel at ease, and be moved. As friends, thick Taoist people can be befriended; As a partner, trustworthy; As a teacher, respected; As a leader, one can; As a subordinate, approachable. A kind-hearted person is upright, honest, trustworthy, adheres to principles, has a big belly and can tolerate everything, values harmony, is willing to help others, indifferent to fame and fortune, has emotions and righteousness, does not calculate, does not deceive, and does not betray. Dealing with a kind-hearted person is like basking in a spring breeze, like immersing oneself in the sunshine of spring in March.
Being kind and peaceful, never rushing for quick success or instant benefits, always down-to-earth and working hard, which is why one can soar to great heights; A person of integrity is the most down-to-earth in their work, never caring about their efforts, so they can reap the most rewards; A kind-hearted person can endure hardship, remain high in adversity, and persevere in loneliness, so they are the least likely to be defeated; The most enduring hardship and ordinariness of a virtuous person is the closest to success; A virtuous person can be content and never have endless desires. They are always content and content, so they are least likely to be tormented by unfulfilled desires; Kind hearted people have a calm mind and never demand perfection. On the contrary, their lives are the most fulfilling; Honest people have a calm mind and do not force themselves, but their lives are full of opportunities.
