【 Name 】 Learning to Survive - A Complete Collection of Speaking Arts that Young People Must Understand [Author] Edited by Chen Jing [Publisher] Diplomatic Publishing House 【 Open 】 16 open [Page] 426 pages [Size and Weight] ISBN number: 9787119075235

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The first opening is gold
Chapter 1: The Art of Speaking determines Success or Failure
The first sentence is very important
Try to choose safe topics as much as possible
Make the topic deeply rooted in people's hearts
Speak logically
Speak with reason, move with emotion
Let others fully express their own opinions first
Treat different types of people differently
The 'high hat' has wonderful uses
Chapter 2: The Art of Young People Speaking with Subtle Words
Humor is a manifestation of wisdom
Using humor to resolve awkwardness
Humorous language can also be used during interviews
Make your own joke
Exaggerated techniques can also create humorous effects
Intentional misinterpretation can enhance language effectiveness
Cleverly refute the other party using analogy
Chapter 3: The Art of Speaking for Young People: Resolving Crisis
When encountering disputes, pay attention to your identity and status
To move people with emotions in difficult situations
Maintain a tolerant attitude towards unintentional offenses from others
Often say 'we' instead of 'me'
Small friction can be solved through the method of "mixing mud"
Cleverly escape and re-examine the situation
Pay attention to details when dealing with workplace conflicts
Faced with contradictions, one can change their way of thinking
Try to use Mandarin when communicating with strangers
You need to know how to back down
Puns have clever uses
Develop one's ability to adapt to changing circumstances
Find a way out for the other party
Schadenfreude is a taboo
Chapter 4: The Art of Speaking for Young People and the Clever Use of Human Relationships
Persuade people with reason, move people with emotion
Affinity is a powerful tool for persuasion
Lock in the person you need to persuade
Determine the content of the speech based on the occasion
Persuade the other party to choose a suitable location
Persuading others can be achieved through overcorrection
Wise people are good at borrowing strength to act
Learn to use the 'Method of Stimulating'
Learn the wisdom of avoiding reality and striking the virtual
Chapter 5: Language and Etiquette that Young People Must Understand
Methods to master polite language
Proper use of titles
Etiquette to be followed during greetings
Etiquette for greeting acquaintances
Two aspects of etiquette in conversation
How to praise others
How to ask questions correctly
How to express rejection
Sincerely apologize
Criticize others appropriately
How to express congratulations
How to express condolences
Jokes should be moderate
The second article shows a significant improvement in the speaking ability of young people
Chapter 1: Young People Should Control Their Mouth
Pay attention to the knowledge of speaking
Attitude determines everything
Cultivate humble character
Always leave room for yourself in everything
Differentiated treatment of the speaker
Be careful to avoid language taboos
Chapter 2: Young People Should Pay Attention to Etiquette in Speaking
Language is a reflection of cultivation
The charm of language is closely related to personal appearance
Banquet showcases personal professional image
Don't overlook the beauty of behavior
Polite language is a good solution to problems
Respect others in any situation
Greetings can bring each other closer together
Pay attention to addressing others' names
Exploratory search for a point of convergence
Chapter 3: Young People Should Learn to Use Language to Seize the Advantage
Seize the opportunity with eloquence
A good mouth can win you wealth
Debates are different from regular conversations
To get to know the other person, you can ask clever questions
How to start a conversation most effectively
Occupy a favorable position in negotiations
A good opening statement can pave the way for you
Opportunities can be obtained through good eloquence
Let's talk about what the other person is interested in first
Chapter 4: Young People Need Skills in Speaking
Persuade others with skills
Master the skills first, then entrust someone to handle the matter
Refuting others also requires skills
Tips for the first meeting with a couple
How to win the favor of friends
Learn to master the timing of speaking
Language should be gentle and implicit
Chapter 5: Young People Should Grasp the Scale of Praise
Sincere appreciation helps to resolve resentment
Frequently praise others
Make compliments creative
Learn to use sweet words
Indirectly praise others
Humbly seek advice from others
Cleverly flatter the other party
Praise should be moderate
At the end of the conversation, don't forget to add compliments
Tips for using compliments
Regularly praise others
Chapter 6: Young People's Criticism Should Also Emphasize Art
Cleverly criticize using metaphors
Criticizing others can be done through questioning
When criticizing, one can speak the truth and say the opposite
Self criticism is a good way to solve problems
Criticizing others should be done indirectly
A pun with many clever uses
Replace criticism with suggestions
Using jokes to provoke criticism
Criticism should be moderate
Criticizing others cannot reconcile old accounts
Criticize in a gentle tone
Too much is not enough, enough is enough
Chapter 7: Young People Should Learn the Art of Refusing Speaking
Be decisive when refusing
Using skills to refuse others
Declined politely is an effective way of refusal
The reason for refusal should be appropriate
Cleverly issue the order to evict guests
以“理”拒人
When declining, you can answer irrelevant questions
When refusing others, one should not be rude
When rejecting others, language should be tactful
Chapter 8: Being knowledgeable can better reflect the speaking ability of young people
Cultivate the habit of reading
Expanding knowledge can improve speaking skills
Socializing is a compulsory course
Turn learning into an interest
Strengthen memory and enrich experience
The choice of words and tone are very important
Develop the ability to highly summarize and condense language
Pay attention to your speaking speed and voice
Eye contact is very important
Chapter 9: Young People Should Pay Attention to the Balance of Jokes
Playing jokes is not a common saying
Jokes should be moderate
Just kidding, it depends on the specific target
Distinguish the occasion before joking
Other people's privacy cannot be joked about
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The third article: Young people need to speak clearly and coherently
Young people need to recognize their target audience when speaking

Content Introduction

This book is a systematic classic about young people's speaking and interpersonal skills, based on the principles of practicality and convenience. It introduces the most effective and widely used speaking techniques and interpersonal philosophy in daily life to young people, enabling them to master the ability to speak well, be shrewd in interpersonal relationships, and be a perfect person in a short period of time; Teach young people how to sing whatever song they go to, say whatever words they see, and do whatever things they encounter when speaking and interacting with others.