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Title: The Happiest Life with a Calm Mind
Original price: 59.00
Author: Edited by He Hongying
出版社：外文出版社
Publication date: August 1, 2013
ISBN：9787119084213
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Basic Information
Title: The Happiest Life with a Calm Mind
Original price: 59.00
Author: Edited by He Hongying
出版社：外文出版社
Publication date: August 1, 2013
ISBN：9787119084213
Word count:
Page number: 422
Version: 1
Binding: Flat
Format: 16 format
Product weight:
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The Happiest Life with a Calm Mind "is a comprehensive, thorough, and classic book of spiritual cultivation that will benefit you greatly and be useful for a lifetime!
Abstract
The book 'The Happiest Life with a Calm Mind' uses language rich in philosophy and wisdom, and lists a large number of humorous and witty examples to explain what a calm life is and how to achieve a calm state from five parts. The content is detailed, comprehensive, vivid, interesting, and profound, covering topics such as emotional control, mental calmness, whether one has a calm mind, and how to face setbacks and difficulties. How to face life choices and find oneself. I have provided wise and in-depth explanations on how to release stress, how to interact with others, and how to deal with one's family and love.
catalogue
The first article discusses the mindset of Rong Pinghe
Chapter 1: Only by getting rid of restlessness can one be calm and composed
Let go of impatience
Away from the flames of fame and fortune
Loneliness is a pleasure
Let go of unpleasant feelings
The rhythm of life must be mastered by oneself
The joy of life lies in its simplicity and authenticity
Recognize one's own value
Enlightenment is a new beginning
View the world through the eyes of a child
Living freely and naturally
Wholeheartedly focused on one thing
Chapter 2: The realm arises from the heart, contentment brings happiness
Wealth and prosperity are like floating clouds
Contentment brings happiness.
Living simply brings happiness
Gratitude makes life prosperous
The greater the greed, the greater the loss
Lock in greed
Not letting money control oneself
Control your own desires
Do not enslave money
Don't let blind comparison hurt yourself
Accept reality with equanimity
Not relying on external things, gaining true freedom
Resolutely discard the burden of greed
A calm and composed state of mind
Base on the present
Learn to Taste Life
See through the essence of life
accomplish sth lasting by leading a quiet life
Get rid of knots
Infinite desires keep life away from happiness
Cut off the rope of desire
Chapter 3: Purifying the Mind, Success Originates from Mindset
Do not have the mentality of being difficult for others
Have a neither humble nor arrogant attitude
The power of determination is immeasurable
The fate of the strong depends on the mentality of self-improvement and perseverance
Success requires decisiveness
Don't be a 'hesitant sir'
To be a person, one must have their own opinions and never be indecisive
Willpower is the guarantee of success
Self motivation leads to success
Success comes from the spirit of dedication
Learn inner practice
Ambition leads to dreams
The environment cannot be changed, what changes is your mentality
Chapter 4: A tolerant and open-minded person can go further
Happiness and health come from tolerance
Reflect on yourself before criticizing others
Revenge in the heart can only hurt oneself
Be strict with oneself and lenient towards others
Accept and tolerate the shortcomings of others
Remember kindness, forget harm
Tolerance is a kind of magnanimity
Only cultured people know how to forgive
There's no need to argue over trivial matters
Forgive those who have hurt themselves
Learn to forget the past and strive for a happy future
Chapter 5: From Rongda's Perspective, Always Maintain Passion
Passion is a force
To succeed, one must first have the passion for success
Passion keeps you young forever
Embrace every day with enthusiasm
Learn to awaken the dormant passion of life
Passion makes work enjoyable
Attitude always comes first
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The second article: The more frustrated, the braver the pursuit
The third article is about pure and profound emotions
The Fourth Simple Life State
The Fifth Tranquil Philosophy of Life
Digest
Smart women won't go to these two extremes. A smart woman is full of wisdom and will not frown over trivial matters, let alone trouble men with everything. She understood that men are not omnipotent, and their time and energy are not infinite. If everything is pushed to them, it will not only be unfair to men, but also make them physically and mentally exhausted and overwhelmed. Men who are under excessive pressure often find it difficult to control themselves, showing abnormal irritability and easily getting angry, which inevitably affects the quality of their marriage. Smart women know how to share the burden and take the initiative to alleviate the psychological pressure on men's shoulders.
Men cannot tolerate women who make a big deal out of it, and they also find it difficult to accept women who are stronger than them. Men have been influenced by the idea since childhood that as a man, he should be strong and handle everything well. Men have become accustomed to the idea that if they cannot do something well, it means they are incompetent. Therefore, once a woman shows excessive strength in front of a man, the man will develop defensive resistance and may refuse her help without hesitation. When he was signaled by a woman to lend him a helping hand, he felt insulted and firmly said, 'I can do it.'.
All men have a natural instinct for self-protection, and in their eyes, women need to be carefully cared for and taken care of. They long to be the protectors of women and to be able to protect them from harm. This is why men are more like men in front of women, and women are more like women in front of men. This is due to the innate differences and different needs of both sexes. Smart women will appropriately express their feelings of disappointment and make men feel that they need them, but this need and dependence are different, and they will not make men feel constrained. Men have not lost their freedom, yet they feel that women need them very much. This not only greatly satisfies their vanity and desire for protection, but also makes them feel good, giving them confidence and strength.
The starting point of a woman who is too strong may be good, she may just not want to add more worries to men, but this approach is not advisable. Women's excessive strength will only make men stay away and think that women do not need them. If a man's desire for protection cannot be satisfied with you, he will seek others to satisfy his desires, and he also hopes to give his love to someone who truly needs him.
Some people may think that it's not bad for women to be too strong, but isn't it much easier for men? That's right, if women take care of everything, men don't have to worry about anything. They can do nothing and rely on women for support. This situation is not uncommon in real life, but is this "female lead outside, male lead inside" division of labor between husband and wife really happy? This actually goes against the core values of men. Compared to women, men value the speed of doing things more. They will constantly accumulate energy and use various methods to demonstrate their abilities. His attitude towards life is closely related to indicators such as "achievement" and "success", which can bring him the greatest sense of satisfaction. Among all the values of men, the desire for success and the pursuit of performance are the core of their values.
Smart women will never leave their husbands idle, even if they can handle everything, because they understand that men need to show their stage and prove their abilities. Men without careers will not be happy. They seek advice from men on work-related issues and timely urge and encourage their husbands to achieve greater success.
Women should not make men feel discouraged
As is well known, many times men and women interact to satisfy each other's emotional needs. However, in his interactions with some women, men always feel disappointed and cannot find emotional comfort from the other party, so he begins to distance himself from this woman. If women are always insulated from love for this reason, then although men may also make mistakes, women should bear the primary responsibility.
