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Title: Square and Circle
Original price: 59.00 yuan
Author: Yang Haishan
出版社：外文出版社
Publication date: June 1st, 2013
ISBN：9787119082943
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Basic Information
Title: Square and Circle
Original price: 59.00 yuan
Author: Yang Haishan
出版社：外文出版社
Publication date: June 1st, 2013
ISBN：9787119082943
Word count:
Page number: 426
Version: 1st edition
Binding: Flat
Format: 16
Product weight: 821 g
Editor's Pick
As long as one applies the principles of square and radius in life, they will be invincible and invincible. Whether moving forward or backward, one can remain calm and not be swayed by the eyes and comments of the world.
The theory of "Square and Circle" is combined with practice, comprehensively and systematically explaining the wisdom and clever application of square and circle; Presenting the classics of the philosophy of square and circle in a comprehensive manner from shallow to deep; Using examples as evidence, explain how to appropriately apply the philosophy and wisdom of Fangyuan, and teach you the skills and knowledge of being a smooth and harmonious person. Facing the game and competition in life correctly allows you to seize the opportunity, step by step, and gain the advantage of success earlier. Reading this book will surely help you navigate your life journey with ease and ease. This book is edited by Yang Haishan.
Abstract
The theory of "Square and Circle" is connected with practice, comprehensively and systematically explaining the wisdom and clever application of square and circle, presenting the classic philosophy of square and circle from shallow to deep, explaining how to appropriately apply the philosophy and wisdom of square and circle, and teaching you the skills and knowledge of being a person and integrating with the world. Reading 'Square and Circle' will surely help you navigate the journey of life with ease and ease. This book is edited by Yang Haishan.
catalogue
The first article: Square and Circle
Chapter 1: The Method of Being a Person in Advance
To be a person, one must learn to control desires
Being a person should face life optimistically
To be a person, one should be confident and not arrogant
Being a person requires making decisive decisions
Don't be vain in life
To be a person, we should respect each other and be kind to others
To be a person, one must learn to say 'no'
To be a person, one must have perseverance
Not doing well, sir
Remember the invincibility of ninjas
Honesty is more important than anything else
Faith is the foundation of being a person
Let kindness become the belief of being a person
Character is far more important than talent
To be a person, one must have a conscience
Don't be confined to details when being a person
Leave room for yourself
Great wisdom but foolishness is wisdom and strategy
Win win interaction between being a person and doing things
Being a person and doing things are two sides of the same coin
People don't need to be too aloof
Chapter 2: The Way of Circle - It's Hard to Be Confused in Life
Stupidity is also wisdom
Learn to be wise and foolish for a while
Pretending to be confused is a skill
Sometimes confusion is the way to take shelter
Clear in the heart, vague on the surface
People need to learn to be confused
False confusion, true wisdom
Not manifested in color, not manifested in words
Big things don't need to be confused, small things don't need to be shrewd
Open one eye, close one eye
Smart is mistaken by smart
Sharp edges must not be exposed
Chapter 3: The Wisdom of Square and Circle - Being indifferent and grasping happiness
Optimistic attitude towards imperfections in life
A pure heart nurtures the joy of life
Unfold the 'knot' in your heart
Life needs to move forward lightly
Having too much desire becomes a burden
Correctly view money
Live in the moment
Come home often to see your family.
Meeting is fate, gathering is beautiful
Integrating life into nature
Be your true self
Make life full of joy
The Second Philosophy of Square and Circle - Embracing Square with Circle and Embracing Circle with Square
Chapter 1: Applying Fangyuan to Live a Wonderful Life
Kindness is much more precious than money
Help is mutual
Kindness requires lifelong cultivation
Being kind to others is a virtue
There's no need to take things too seriously
Being too serious doesn't have any benefits
Don't strive for perfection in everything
Be tactful and indirect, leave some face for the other party
Be good at tolerating other people's minor flaws
Life should be filled with love
To retaliate against others is undoubtedly to retaliate against oneself
Respecting others is a virtue
Laugh out your kindness
Chapter 2: Circle is a machine variable, square is a principle
Why not learn "Chen Cang of Darkness"
Hidden 'strengths' and exposed' weaknesses' are skills
Disguising oneself is essential
Don't make others feel inferior
Being clever is not a shortcut to success in life
Don't put your emotions on your face
Going downstream is the key to better survival
Keep the green mountains here, don't be afraid of running out of firewood
Chapter 3: Circle is Soft, Square is Strong
Learn not to be afraid of losses
Being a person also requires a bit of ambition
The power of determination is immeasurable
Concentrate on doing your own thing well
Do not force others to do what is difficult
Thick skinned, eat enough
Success comes from a positive mindset
Don't be a 'hesitant sir'
Success requires decisiveness
Strong willpower and great power
Overcome human weaknesses with tenacious will
Perseverance is the treasure of life
Chapter 4: A circle remains unchanged with ten thousand variations, only then can it respond to ten thousand variations with the same
Approach successful individuals
Be friends before doing things
Only with human connections can one speak and act effectively
Please do not hurt your emotions when seeking help from others
Good wind sends you to Qingyun
Same hometown, three parts kinship
Borrowing strength to achieve career success
At the moment of burning eyebrows, use classmate relationships more often
Giving gifts is also a profound art
Learn to do human business
Disguised 'coercion' is also feasible
The way of using military force is to attack the heart
Pretending to be confused, pretending to be true
Inspire the other party's potential for handling affairs
Why not start with the other party's weaknesses
Taking advantage of intelligence and winning through strong attack
The third philosophy of being a person - there is a square in the circle, and a circle in the square
Chapter 1: Harmony. To be a person, one must manage their emotions well
Learn to be indifferent to troubles
Being too serious can reduce the joy of life
There's no need to nitpick
Being too competitive is a misconception in life
Everything should be handled with tolerance
Learn to forgive oneself moderately
Learn to change yourself from the state of mind
Pull out the nail of bad emotions
Enhance the ability to control emotions
Learn to deal with 'bad emotions' rationally
Don't make emotions emotional
Learn to calmly face slander
Chapter 2: Harmony: To be a person, one must face life with a positive attitude
Mentality is the navigator of life
Attitude determines height
Six methods to cultivate a positive mindset
Cultivate an optimistic attitude and move towards a brilliant life
A good mindset can prolong life and prolong life
A negative mindset is not conducive to success
A negative mindset can harm one's health
Instead of regretting the past, it's better to focus on the future
Enhance self-confidence and nourish the heart
Optimistic and upward looking towards life
Dare to do things that others dare not do
The choice itself is not important, the attitude towards the choice is important
Make full use of every day
Four characters searching for cheese
Be someone who doesn't complain
After the clouds and mist, there is always sunshine
Plain and plain is the truth
Ask yourself, have you really tried your best?
Chapter 3: To be a harmonious person, one must know how to be flexible
Don't be stubborn when encountering problems
Put more effort into the word 'strange'
Dare to accept change
Innovation changes everything
use your imagination
Unleash Inspiration
Developing innovative potential
do the opposite
Learn to break through conventional thinking when doing things
Thoughts change with the environment
Only by taking a different path can there be a new way out
Breaking free from the constraints of busyness
A wise brain is more important than funding
Following others can only lead to mediocrity
Shift your thinking more
Learn to be flexible, things will go smoothly
The important thing is to do more
Seeking a turning point from change
Turn weaknesses into shining points
Do not allow traditional limiting thinking
Chapter 4: To be a person, one must understand the ways of the world
Abandon the habit of fighting alone
Don't be too shrewd
Maintain a good image of oneself and leave a deep impression on others
Honesty is invaluable
Respect everyone
Help others more and be respected by others
Only in times of hardship can true feelings be seen
The power of love is indestructible
Compassion should be moderate, and excessive effort should be avoided
You have to learn to keep a hand in everything
Cold Temple also needs to burn incense
Don't waste your energy on meaningless arguments
Enhance others' sense of self-worth
Always considering others' needs
Chapter 5: To be a harmonious person, one should be good at understanding people's hearts
To recognize others
Skilled in observing others
Han Feizi's Perspective on the Human Mind
People who put on airs feel empty inside
Comparative perspective human recognition technique
Be good at identifying 'little people' as a person
Be cautious when choosing friends
It takes time to see people's hearts
Adversity is the touchstone for testing one's character
No one wants to reveal their cards
Chapter 4: The Way of Dealing with People - If You Can Be Square, You Can Be Square; If You Can Be Round, You Can Be Round
Chapter 1: The combination of firmness and softness is the right path for living in a square and square world
Patience is not only a strategy, but also a virtue
Apply patience appropriately
Enduring small things is the key to achieving great things
A big man should be able to stretch and bend
Why don't you try bending it
Learning to bow down is the fundamental philosophy of dealing with people
Going back is to move forward better
Knowing to advance and retreat is the key to achieving development
Take a step back and there will be a bigger world in front of you
Xiaotui is for greater progress
Take a small step back, take a big step forward
I still have to eat what I'm losing right now
Losing is not a bad thing
Being wronged at work may not necessarily be a bad thing
Chapter 2 emphasizes harmony and unobstructed communication
Speak without restraint, rare to have good interpersonal relationships
Speaking goes through the brain
Think carefully before speaking
Bending the tongue is a technique
How to export the word 'no' is a matter of knowledge
The highest martial arts skill - "rounding the field"
Sometimes it's advisable to speak in a roundabout manner
Clever mouth can shine
Shame and ridicule are unacceptable
Even 'nonsense' needs to be said beautifully
Criticism has skills
Wise people speak carefully, fools speak recklessly
Be careful of the listener's intention
Speak with precision
You can't say it too absolutely
Chapter 3: Boundaries and Understanding of Communication
Choosing friends is a must, and choosing friends is a must
Friends should keep in touch regularly
Be tolerant and understanding of your friends
Be sure to remember the name of your new friend
Remember your friends' kindness more often
Appropriate rejection is an important factor in making friendships last
Be lenient with friends and strict with oneself
Don't be too demanding of your friends
Never offend the 'little people'
Not involved in friends' household affairs
Don't throw tantrums at friends, so as not to lose big for small things
Pay attention to observing changes in people's hearts
Knowing people and faces is difficult to know hearts
Beware of 'sugar coated bullets'
Don't reveal your secrets to others casually
When feeling down, don't casually confide your troubles
Do not easily trust others
Maintaining an appropriate distance is necessary when interacting with people
Do not talk to people like interrogating prisoners
Enjoy with everyone, don't sing solo
Expressing political commentary without moving or moving
Excessive boasting can backfire
Chapter 4: The Art of Fangyuan, Enjoying the Workplace
Be clear about your responsibilities
Sense of responsibility makes us better
Having a sense of responsibility brings you closer to success
Obedience is the first step for outstanding employees
Sense of responsibility is competitiveness
Be brave to admit mistakes when they occur at work
Successful people have methods, while unsuccessful people have excuses
Excellent employees should not shirk responsibility
Daring to accept challenges can bring us closer to success
Let difficulties become stepping stones for growth
Belief is the key to overcoming workplace challenges
Clearly identify the source of salary
Excellent employees should learn to stand alone in the face of difficulties
It's better to endure hardship than to complain, and it's better to strive for excellence than to be angry
Effort is more effective in improving performance than complaining
Dedication is a prerequisite for obtaining returns
Learn to make yourself irreplaceable
Cleverly resolving others' exclusion of you in the workplace
Chapter 5: The Way of Getting Along in Marriage, Love, and Family Life through the Integration of Fangyuan and Fangyuan
To view love correctly
To be able to 'take advantage of the void' and capture one's heart
Take action when the other party is vulnerable
Say 'I love you' through actions
The technique of sweet talk
The Charm of 'Bad' Men
Who said women can't chase men
Touching Men with Details
The nagging habit of women is a stumbling block to marriage
Small things can crush a marriage
The Importance of Trust in Marriage
Marriage is appreciated
Not picky about the other half
Be wary of the fourth type of emotions
Marriage also has the best distance
Try to minimize negative perceptions between partners
Article 5 Accumulation of Wealth - Square and Circle, Harmony between Square and Circle
Chapter 1: The Money Concept of Harmony between Square and Square
Survival requires a material foundation
Creating happiness with money
Enjoy the happiness brought by money
Establish a correct view of money
You must have a bank account
Diligence leads to wealth
Chapter 2: The Art of Financial Management with Harmony between Square and Square
What caused the debt crisis
See if you're in a crisis
Debt must be repaid
Clever Tips for Managing Debt
The significance of throttling
The significance of open source
Buying a car is not an easy task
How to save money and "sit"
Chapter 3: Boundaries and Limits, Earning Funds for reinvestment
Restrain the desire to consume
Understand wage income
Earn the first bucket of gold
Borrowing is also a method of saving money
Buying a car is not an investment
Investment habits determine competitiveness
Set aside reserve funds for investment
The Three Elements of Investment
Investment follows age
Keeping up with the major trends of the investment era
Investing in macroeconomics
Understanding the market is an important prerequisite
Understand the most suitable investment tool for oneself
It's best to start investing in a field that you are familiar with
Investment also requires assistance
How to optimize asset allocation
Clever investment portfolio
Investment requires' two minds'
Chapter 6: The Art of Strategy - From Circle to Square, From Square to Circle
Chapter 1: The Square Game of Life
There is a circle in a square, and a square in a circle
How to achieve ease with ease
A combination of square and radius can lead to success without any obstacles
overcoming hardness with softness
Hide one's strength and bide one's time to achieve great success
Humble words conceal hidden meanings, but sharp words speak out
Mianli hides needles, soft yet firm
The army that subdues without fighting
Seize the opportunity and achieve great success
No unnecessary disputes
Fulfill the competitive spirit of others
Arrogance is too harmful
If it's reasonable, please forgive me
A crafty person has more than one hideout.
Don't bet on one person
Don't be greedy
No need to hit the drowning dog with a stick
Give yourself a protective layer
Chapter 2: The Technique of Recognizing People with Square and Square Development
Eyes tell you the other person's thoughts
Smiling is also a scenery of the soul
Habitual actions speak for themselves
The posture of making phone calls exposes people's feelings
Legs and feet are also signal lights
Makeup is the external manifestation of inner makeup
Judging personality by color
Smoking habits reveal personality traits
Tie is the other side of a man
A catchphrase that expresses sincerity
Judging people by their clothing
Understand the other person from a subtle perspective
Digest
American writer Emerson said, "Confidence is the first secret to success. Confidence is the essence of heroism." One of the most fundamental inner qualities in human psychology is confidence, which is also a basic factor in personality structure. It represents an excellent psychological quality and a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. A positive attitude towards life is an attitude of recognition, affirmation, identification, and support towards oneself, which also includes one's own thoughts, feelings, opinions, and evaluations towards oneself. People not only need to have skills and abilities, but also need confidence. With confidence, it can produce a 1+1>2 effect. However, if a person lacks confidence, they cannot even perform at their most basic level normally.
Churchill's first half of life was full of hardships and twists and turns, until he became Prime Minister at the age of 62. Churchill wrote in his memoirs, "Believe in yourself, and you will succeed
Churchill was born in Ireland and started school at the age of 7 until he graduated from high school. His academic performance was consistently poor, and his teachers believed that he had low intelligence and was slow witted, and that he would not have much potential for success. But Churchill was always full of confidence in himself, he studied English hard, went to India to join the army, and used that time to browse various books.
After going through trials and tribulations, Churchill eventually became an excellent politician, mastering 40000 English words, making him the person with the most English vocabulary. Later, he was elected as the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom and led the British people to a great victory in the anti fascist war. A psychologist in the United States once conducted a survey and research:
On the first day of school for a new student at a certain high school, he announced in one of the classes: You are the most promising students who have been selected, and your future is immeasurable. Afterwards, he never appeared in person again, but he always remembered what he had said and closely monitored these students. After more than a decade of tracking and research, he came up with amazing results. The people in this class are indeed outstanding as he said. Some become scientists, some become engineers, and some become famous lawyers.
Is it really because those students are exceptionally intelligent and talented? No, they were just randomly selected, no different from other ordinary students. In fact, the key is that they believe they are the best and keep striving towards their best goals. The words of psychologists give them infinite strength and belief. This confidence adds infinite motivation to ordinary learning, even some previously ordinary students gradually realize that they "will definitely succeed", overcome their past inferiority complex, and achieve unexpected results.
Confidence is the ladder to success. The reason why Chinese table tennis teams are able to compete and win championships repeatedly is not only due to their strong abilities, but also because of their fearless confidence in facing opponents, which is an important factor that allows them to play freely in competitions. On the other hand, some players without absolute strength often perform exceptionally well in competitions, relying on their superior confidence. That is to say, having confidence may not necessarily lead to success, but without confidence, one will definitely not succeed.
The word that accompanies confidence is' arrogance '. Self confidence and self-confidence are not the same. Confident individuals believe in themselves but respect their opponents, have a calm analysis and judgment of the objective situation, are confident but not blind, optimistic but cautious, and can maximize their own strengths. However, those who are arrogant have no one in their eyes, blindly optimistic about their own strength, do not understand the changes and developments in the specific situation, act stubbornly, and inevitably fall into a trap in the end.
The first brave general in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Lv Bu, is a typical example of arrogance. With his superb martial arts skills and bravery, he completely disregards his opponents. Not only that, he also despised his subordinates and often beat and scolded their officers. The strategist Chen Gong repeatedly offered him advice, but he ignored it and remained stubborn. Even when Cao Cao's army was at the outskirts of the city and the enemy was outnumbered, he still arrogantly shouted in front of Diaochan, "You have no worries. I have painted halberds and red rabbit horses. Who in the world dares to approach me?" In the end, he died due to the internal and external cooperation between his rebel generals and the enemy.
Coincidentally, Guan Yu is also a well deserved famous general, with remarkable martial arts and strategy, but also quite arrogant. When guarding Jingzhou, he "went to the meeting alone" and "flooded the seven armies", causing the enemy to be terrified and becoming even more arrogant and proud. Sun Quan proposed a marriage alliance to him, and he actually said, "My tiger girl, can you marry a dog son?" Lu Meng and Lu Xun of Eastern Wu cleverly took advantage of his arrogance and contempt for the enemy, crossed the river in white, launched a surprise attack on Jingzhou, and the arrogant Guan Yunchang was ultimately defeated in Maicheng, ending up with a tragic ending with a different appearance.
Although arrogant people also have extraordinary talents and strong abilities, they often feel arrogant and self righteous, always thinking that what they say is the golden rule and what they do cannot be criticized. They are accustomed to success, accustomed to listening to compliments from others, unable to listen to harsh advice, never believing in failure, and even if they fail, they will not admit it, let alone know what to do after failure. Because they believe that accepting failure is denying themselves and will tarnish their reputation. This type of person believes in their own experiences, thinking that 'I have crossed more bridges than you have walked, and I have eaten more salt than you have drunk water'. Not willing to accept new things and looking down on young people. When the actual situation changes, we should still respond according to our own tried and tested approach, keeping the same in the face of changes, and not turning back even if we hit the south wall.
Confident individuals are optimistic and open-minded. Not only are they full of confidence, but they can also use this emotion to infect and encourage others. They remain calm and composed when faced with problems, face failures with equanimity, correct mistakes, learn from lessons, and start over. At the same time, they are also willing to humbly seek advice and listen to suggestions from others. In addition, they are humble and cautious, knowing that they still have a lot to learn from others. People not only admire their confidence, but also their character and are willing to get along with them. The arrogant person, however, is self-centered and always thinks that the earth will stop spinning after leaving them, or "Look, you still have to beg me for this", ignoring many small things as if they were born to do big things. Such people are difficult for others to approach, and they themselves are not willing to associate with so-called 'mediocre people'. Although sometimes some people have requests from him and have to make friends with him, in fact, there are few who truly want to be close friends with him and talk about everything. After the matter is done, the relationship also ends.
The rabbit in "The Tortoise and the Hare Race" relies on its fast running speed to sleep soundly, but ultimately loses to the persistent turtle. Confidence increases one's chances of success, while arrogance leads to stagnation and ultimately cannot escape the fate of failure. Learn to be confident, and the road will become wider and wider; Abandoning arrogance, victory or defeat is a common occurrence among soldiers. P5－6
The path of square and radius has existed since ancient times. In the 64 hexagrams of the Book of Changes, there are "square diagrams" and "circular diagrams".
Square and circle are corresponding concepts, which should correspond to the principle of yin and yang, and also conform to the dialectics. In the dialectical relationship between motion and stillness, square represents motion and circle represents stillness; In the combination of whole and part, square is the part and circle is the whole; In the style of handling things, square represents principle and circle represents flexibility. It can be said that within the simple words "square" and "round", there lies the richest philosophy of life of the Chinese nation.
Fang "means that one must abide by rules and regulations when being a person. To be an official, one must uphold public integrity and honesty; to be a businessman, one must be honest and law-abiding; to be a person, one must be honest and upright... In short, it means that a person has their own opinions and principles in life and work, and is not influenced by the outside world.
'Circle' is definitely not smooth and worldly, nor is it mediocre or incompetent. It is a kind of generosity and accommodation, gentle as jade, wise as fool, kind to others, and highly sound and mature in mind. Do not be aggressive because of insight into others' weaknesses, do not be domineering because of being superior to others, adhere to one's own beliefs without giving others a sense of oppression or fear, and subtly influence rather than imposing on others.
If a person is too square and angular, they may get their head broken and bleeding from touching them; But if a person is versatile and smooth, always wanting to let others suffer and take advantage of themselves, they may end up with a situation of betrayal and separation. Therefore, being a person must have a square outside, a square inside, and an outer circle inside.
As we often say in our daily lives, 'Without rules, there can be no order' and 'doing and not doing' mean that one should have their own principles as a person, but not stick to conventions or formalities. One should have the resilience to adapt to social trends and have a harmonious way of dealing with the world. Otherwise, if one lacks talent, they will be seen as weak and vulnerable; If you don't understand the circle in your work, you will make enemies everywhere. But if it is too square or too smooth, it will be difficult to move forward. Just like walking, if you can't go straight, you can find a way to go around. If we have to go straight ahead, the result will only be hitting the south wall. Therefore, in the process of dealing with people, it is necessary to have a sense of propriety, to be square and round at all times, in order to achieve harmony and accessibility, and to occupy a place in social life.
The biggest fear for people in the new era is being dazzled by the colorful world before them and not knowing where to go. So, how can we get rid of today's confusion, calmly establish our careers, cultivate our character, and reach the peak of our careers, and take our lives to a higher level? Please calmly appreciate the true meaning and essence of Fangyuan.
In daily life, it is important to have a clear understanding of the ways of living in different directions, the integration of different directions, the use of different directions, and the mutual transformation of different directions. One should also know what it means to be a good person, what it means to be a good person, when it means to maintain a good relationship, and when it means to maintain a good relationship. Then, mastering the interpersonal skills of standing upright, being a rounded person, having a square within a circle, and having a circle within a square will have strong guiding significance for your daily life. If we could summarize the meaning of life in the simplest sentence, it would be: to have a bottom line in being a person and to be adaptable in doing things. Because being a person knows the surroundings, and heaven and earth allow you to move; Doing things well in all directions is easy in the world.
In short, as long as one applies the principles of square and radius in life, they will be invincible and invincible. Whether moving forward or backward, one can remain calm and not be swayed by the eyes and comments of the world.
This book combines theory with practice, comprehensively and systematically explaining the wisdom and clever application of squares and circles; Presenting the classics of the philosophy of square and circle in a comprehensive manner from shallow to deep; Using examples as evidence, explain how to appropriately apply the philosophy and wisdom of Fangyuan, and teach you the skills and knowledge of being a smooth and harmonious person. Facing the game and competition in life correctly allows you to seize the opportunity, step by step, and gain the advantage of success earlier. Reading this book will surely help you navigate your life journey with ease and ease.
