In life, it is inevitable to endure various hardships and tortures. In fact, looking at it from a different perspective, these tortures are not negative for life, but rather positive factors that promote personal growth. Life is a process of transformation, and only by experiencing various tortures can we expand the thickness of life. If we ever achieve success and fame, the first person we should thank is the one who has tormented us, because it is they who have made us braver, stronger, and more confident. You should be grateful to those who have tortured you, whether they are well intentioned or malicious, because while torturing you, they are also helping you. It is they who make you grow, mature, and succeed! Forgive others, be grateful, no matter how bad they are or how deeply they have hurt you, you must let go in order to truly find happiness. Thank the person who hurt you, because they have tempered your spirit; Thank the person who deceived you, for they have enhanced your wisdom; Thank the person who slandered you, because they have tempered your character; Thank the person who whipped you, because he inspired your fighting spirit; Thank the person who abandoned you, because they taught you to be independent; thank the person who tripped you, because they strengthened your legs; Thank the person who criticized you, because they reminded you of your shortcomings. The complete collection of thanks to those who torment you, compiled by Chen Nan, is a shining light for you to successfully pursue your ideals and live a relaxed and carefree life. By reading this book, you will love deeply and live with passion; It will make you more confident in pursuing your dreams and aspirations. When facing challenges, setbacks, and feeling hopeless, this book will give you strength; In times of confusion, pain, and loss, this book will provide you with comfort... "The Complete Collection of Gratitude to Those Who Torture You" emphasizes that people should face those who torture themselves in work, career, life, and life with a positive attitude, regard various tortures as a test of themselves, re understand themselves, break through psychological bottlenecks, stimulate their potential, grow and progress in torture, and achieve happiness in life and success in career.

Where there is a loss, there is a gain. There are gains and losses in life, which is always a mix of blessings and misfortunes. Therefore, people should have the spirit of "gaining without liking, losing without worrying". There are many things in the world that are truly unpredictable, whether good or bad, they always accompany each other, because humans are a unity of loss and gain. A person's life is like clusters of flowers, with both bright and shining moments as well as dull and bleak days. When good things come, do not be ecstatic or domineering, underestimate fame and fortune, and underestimate them; When disaster strikes, do not be sad or give up on yourself. Look away from the humiliation of misfortune and be open-minded. Perhaps misfortune will bring you good luck unintentionally. One should understand this truth: life is always a mix of good and bad. So, each and every one of us should have a mentality of "gaining without liking, losing without worrying". Long ago, it was said that there lived an old man, his son, and a galloping horse on a distant forest hill. One morning, the horse ran somewhere and neighbors came to comfort the old man, expressing sympathy for his unfortunate loss of the steed. The old man said, 'Who told you this was a disaster?' The neighbors fell silent, and they bid farewell to the old man and returned to their homes. Not many days later, the horse automatically returned to its owner's house, and not only this one, but also a group of wild horses came with it. The neighbors came to the old man's house again, happily congratulating him on this abundant harvest and such luck. At this moment, the old man looked at everyone and calmly said, "Who told you this is a blessing!" The neighbors were shocked, speechless, and left with doubts. After a few more days, the old man's son began training this group of wild horses. He rode one of the fierce horses, but fell off the back and broke his leg. The neighbors came to visit the old man's house again and expressed their sorrow for his son's plight to him. However, the old man gently said, "Who told you this was unfortunate?" The neighbors silently left again. The following year, war broke out and young adults were sent to the battlefield. Except for the old man's son, everyone else died. The old man's son escaped the fate of death by being crippled and avoiding the battlefield. In real life, people often feel happy just for the sake of happiness, but there may be hidden dangers in happiness. People often suffer from disasters, but happiness may not necessarily be absent from disasters. Once upon a time, there was a king who was very good at governing the country and often traveled in disguise to understand the people's situation. Under his governance, the country was prosperous, the people were at peace, and progress was made. He has a very capable prime minister, and whenever there is an important matter, he will first consult this prime minister and listen to the insightful opinions of this subordinate. One day, it suddenly started to rain, and the king's plan to go out was hindered. The king asked the prime minister beside him, "Did this heavy rain go well?" "Okay! After the heavy rain, the streets are clean and the air is fresh. You can enjoy the beauty of clear skies after the rain, and also go deep into the people to inspect their situation." The king was very happy to hear this. Once again, when the king was about to go on a tour, the weather was extremely hot, so hot that the king was sweating profusely. The king asked the prime minister, "Is it good to go out on such a hot day?" The prime minister replied without hesitation, "Okay! This kind of weather is rare in recent days. The king's tour will give him a better understanding of what our people are doing in this hot weather." The king felt it made sense and happily went out. This king and prime minister share a common hobby - hunting. Every time the king hunts, only the prime minister accompanies him. Once, the king accidentally cut off a thumb while inspecting a hunting device. He quickly asked the Prime Minister, "My thumb has been chopped off, okay?" "Okay, Your Majesty." After hearing this, the King was full of anger and thought that the Prime Minister had thrown stones into a well, so he ordered the Prime Minister to be implicated. The king said to the prime minister who was imprisoned in the cell, 'Now you are imprisoned in the cell, okay?' 'Okay. Very good!' The king was infuriated by him. Since you think it's good, let's stay here for a few days! "He said angrily and walked away. Two days later, the king's "hunting desire" flared up and he really wanted to go hunting, but due to face saving reasons, he didn't want to release the prime minister, so he had to go hunting alone. Usually, the Prime Minister is familiar with the geographical environment, so he often returns triumphantly. That day, the king went hunting alone and chased animals in the forest. After several hours, he couldn't find a single animal hair. The king was very unhappy and rode his horse around to search for prey. Soon, the sun set and the birds returned to their nests. The king was also tired, so he dismounted and led the horse along. Suddenly, he realized that the surroundings were very unfamiliar and thought to himself, "I must have lost my way." Walking and walking, suddenly, the king accidentally fell into a trap for catching prey. The trap was deep, and the king tried repeatedly to climb out of the cave, but failed. After a while, he heard footsteps getting closer and closer, and he felt extremely happy in his heart. This time, there was a savior! Help! "The king shouted loudly for help. The people above rescued him, but they were all natives of neighboring cannibals. The three to five natives brought the king back to the tribe. That night, the cannibals were all happy, singing and dancing around the king. The king was tied to a cross, with a pile of firewood piled up at his feet. The natives were preparing to light a fire and eat burnt human flesh. The king was speechless due to language barriers, waiting for a miracle to occur, otherwise he would inevitably die. The ceremony began, and the chief instructed everyone to sit down. Soon a wizard began the ritual, spraying water on the king and gradually examining various parts of his body. When he checked his hands, he sighed softly and shook his head repeatedly, leaving everyone puzzled and surprised. The wizard said to the chief, 'Our tribe only eats whole animals, which are ominous because their thumb is broken! We cannot eat them!' The chief immediately went to check and found that the king's thumb was missing one section, so he ordered the king to be released. After the king's robbery, She Sheng picked up a life and was very excited. He immediately rushed back to the prison in the capital to pay his respects to the Prime Minister. When he saw the Prime Minister, he cried while holding onto this' loyal minister '. Now I understand why you said my severed finger was a good thing, it saved my life. I wrongly accused you! "Afterwards, the king said to the prime minister," I'll keep you in prison for more than 10 days, okay? "" Okay, good! "" Why? "The king didn't understand. If Your Majesty doesn't imprison me, I will definitely go hunting with you. We will all be captured by cannibals together. You can save your life by cutting your finger, but I will definitely die because I am complete! "For a moment, the king had a sudden realization: everything has two sides, good or bad, it all depends on yourself. Gain and loss are two sides of the same coin, inseparable. Whether it's loss or gain, sometimes it happens in an instant, just a momentary difference. In life, if you don't understand the truth behind it, you will be played tricks by both good and bad, and even if happiness comes, it will be lost. In real life, it is often difficult for each of us to view problems dialectically. Therefore, for the sake of an unfortunate marriage, a breakup, losing a job for some reason, or experiencing setbacks and setbacks in our careers, we regret deeply and feel that life has lost its brightness. The dim state of mind immerses us in unbearable pain all day long. In fact, everything is like this, just like the changing stars, with both day and night, the world operates continuously according to specific laws. However, due to our short sightedness, we often only see the scattered links, segmented parts, temporary results, and sudden factors of things, and cannot see the whole of things. Because the entirety of things extends into the realm of darkness and concealment. Unfortunately, we cannot see the invisible with our eyes. If a person can rely on their vision to have a clear view of yesterday, today, and tomorrow, and can use it to follow the entire event or a person's life, then they will surely discover miracles: millionaires will see that they will have some poor children, and among the poor, there will be another wealth accumulating person. This cycle continues, with money coming from nothing and then from something to nothing. Happiness is born from misfortune, and happiness is produced from misfortune, like a water wheel circulating endlessly. In fact, there is not much luck or misfortune, because the running waterwheel does not stop any bucket in one place. What we call 'luck' is just that our limited goals are stuck in a certain time and place, and the joy or worry we feel for this luck is just that we lack patience to wait for what comes next .....