Title: Bestselling Global Success Inspirational Classic - Parents are the Best Teachers for Children Original price: 29.80 yuan Author: Zhang Yanling Publisher: Jinghua Publishing Publication date: June 1, 2011 00:00:00 ISBN：9787550201682 Word count: Page number: 199 Version: 1st edition Binding: Flat Format: 16

Preface
Chapter 1: Parents are the Best Teachers for Children
Parents are the first good teachers and friends in a child's life
Family is the best classroom
The two most important spiritual traits required for children's growth: influence and affinity
Keep your word and keep it to your child
Quality cultivation, example is better than inheritance
Parents set a moral example for their children
Actively engage in the daily life of children
The secret to successfully educating children
Chapter 2: Making Excellence a Habit for Children
Good habits come from daily cultivation
Honesty is the foundation of being a person
Frugality is a virtue that children should learn
Provide love education to children
How to prevent children from getting angry
Confidence is the cornerstone of a child's growth
Encourage children to develop the habit of being honest and responsible
Encourage children to dare to stand out from the crowd
Teach children to be grateful
Attention is the skylight of the soul
Adapt to the situation and transform children's jealousy mentality
Improving children's shyness and autism psychology
Teaching? Where is the hard gray?
Don't let inferiority hold your child's nose
Chapter 3: Cautious Use of Blame and Reward
Proper discipline, moderate leniency and strictness
Giving rewards and punishments to children should be done with caution
Excessive blame is harmful to children and not beneficial
Replace criticism with praise
Allow children to make mistakes
Accidentally, rewards can turn into bribes
It's not difficult to discover a child's strengths
Blaming children requires careful methods
Chapter 4: Making Children Strong in Life
Falling down, stand up on your own
I can't take care of the child's affairs
Cultivate children's spirit of hardship
Teach children to handle setbacks and failures correctly
Refining children's psychological resilience
Financial education starts from children
Teach children to live independently
Let children throw away the crutches of dependence and parents who do not do everything for them
Teach children self-protection
Let children train themselves
Wise parents do not spoil their children
Chapter 5: Helping Children Achieve Good Grades
Help children establish a practical and feasible goal
A reasonable study plan is half the battle for success
Play and achieve good results
Interest is the best teacher for children
A child's aversion to learning is not a disease
Train children to develop good reading habits
Hands on are the key to making children agile and skillful
Let children master the correct memory methods
Guide children to learn independent thinking
Creativity is the key to success
Chapter 6: Ten Words to Encourage Children to Say
Everyone needs the help of others, not just their own feelings
You should become someone that everyone likes
Anyway, cursing and hitting people are all wrong
People should have their own opinions and not blindly follow
Friends should trust and be honest in their interactions
Yourself do things yourself.
Find the reasons for failure and strive to overcome them
Everyone has something worth learning from
Child, lift your head up
Score is not the most important thing, what matters is that you truly put in the effort
Chapter 7: Respect the Ten Words Children Cannot Say
Don't go out to play until you finish your homework
If you get first place in the exam, I'll buy you a gift
No success, just this little score on the exam
Adults speak, children don't interrupt
Why do you always have so many questions
Why are you so stupid
You useless brat, you've never had any success in your life
If it doesn't work, don't persist
What privacy do children have
Don't bother me, I'm busy right now

Preface

Famous education expert Lu Qin once wrote a report on the misconceptions of Chinese family education, titled "There are no bad children, only bad parents". The article listed many examples of children falling into the wrong path due to improper educational methods. It can be seen that a child's tomorrow is largely in the hands of today's parents. To become qualified parents, having a strong desire for their children is not enough. The most important thing is to grasp the key to educating children and master good educational methods.
Einstein once said, "Children are born geniuses, but often in the years of seeking knowledge, wrong educational methods stifle their genius." For children, parents are the first and lifelong teachers, as well as the best enlightenment teachers. Therefore, parents' educational beliefs and methods directly affect their children's growth.
Children are the hope of parents, and every parent hopes that their children can grow up healthy and strong. Parents spend the longest time with their children, so being a good teacher for their children is an undeniable responsibility and obligation. Every move, word, and action of parents subtly influences and changes their children. Parents should educate their children according to the situation, teach them according to their aptitude, and prescribe the right medicine, rather than rushing for quick success, instant benefits, or pulling out seedlings to promote growth.
Mr. Ba Jin said, "The improvement or deterioration of children is related to the education they receive. There is a saying called 'preconceived notions', so parents are the first teachers and cannot push everything onto schools. Helping children grow up healthy, the so-called cultivation and education are just one sentence. We hope our children can succeed, and first of all, we must fulfill the responsibilities of parents. Excellent educational methods can not only stimulate children's learning potential, change their bad habits and behaviors, but also improve their comprehensive quality and prepare them fully for entering society in the future.
'Making children win at the starting line' is the lifelong goal of all parents. Parents should be the best teachers for their children, cultivating their sound personality, courage to solve difficulties, confidence in facing challenges, staying away from bad habits, taking initiative to take responsibility, enthusiastically engaging in life, and treating others kindly, paving the way for their children to succeed.
This book selects many successful educational cases from real life, extracts and analyzes them, and provides many educational methods for lost parents to learn from. I sincerely hope that all parents in the world can educate excellent children.